My Sister Selma lives New York, USA. She works for public radio but she's also a singer and a musician - a pianist. She lives with her SO, Stewart, out in the country. She reveled us real early in our quits about the bears frolicking in her back yard. The guys will tell you too that she's as beautiful inside as she is outside. I'm really fortunate to have had her with me this past year.... especially with all of these men around!!! Smile. Selma and I never shied away from talking about anything and everything, though, and to the fella's credit, they hung in there with us every e-mail along the way. Selma quit smoking by using Zyban.